Level 1 · Survival Korean
Learn Korean family terms, which change based on the speaker's gender, and talk about the people in your life.
14 words · tap 🔊 to hear native-speaker pronunciation
Korean family terms are fascinatingly specific. Unlike English, where "older brother" is just "older brother," Korean has DIFFERENT words depending on whether the speaker is male or female:
• A man calls his older brother 형 (hyeong) • A woman calls her older brother 오빠 (oppa)
This reflects Korea's Confucian heritage where age, gender, and social hierarchy shape language. You'll also learn the subject particle 이/가 and the past tense ending -았/었어요.
Fun fact: Koreans often call close non-family members by family terms too — calling an older female friend 언니 or 누나 is totally normal!
family
가족이 몇 명이에요?How many people are in your family?
💡 Memory tip: 가(家, house) + 족(族, clan/tribe) — the "people of the house." The same 가 is in 가정 (household).
Pronunciation: ㄱ받침 + vowel: in 가족이 the ㄱ links to 이: [가조기]
father
아버지는 회사원이에요.My father is an office worker.
💡 Memory tip: 아빠 (appa, casual "dad") → 아버지 is the polite, respectful form. Pair with 어머니 (mother).
Pronunciation: Polite form. Casual: 아빠 (appa). Very formal: 아버님 (abeonim)
mother
어머니가 요리를 잘해요.My mother cooks well.
💡 Memory tip: 엄마 (eomma, casual "mom") → 어머니 is the polite, respectful form. The mirror of 아버지.
Pronunciation: Polite form. Casual: 엄마 (eomma). Very formal: 어머님 (eomeonim)
older brother
형이 대학생이에요. / 오빠가 대학생이에요.My older brother is a university student.
💡 Memory tip: Which word depends on YOUR gender: a man says 형, a woman says 오빠. (오빠 is also what K-pop fans call male idols.)
Pronunciation: 형 = male speaker's older brother. 오빠 = female speaker's older brother. Very different words!
older sister
누나가 선생님이에요. / 언니가 선생님이에요.My older sister is a teacher.
💡 Memory tip: Again depends on YOUR gender: a man says 누나, a woman says 언니. Mirror of the 형/오빠 pair.
Pronunciation: 누나 = male speaker's older sister. 언니 = female speaker's older sister.
man / male
저 남자는 누구예요?Who is that man?
💡 Memory tip: 남(男, male) + 자(子, person) = "male person." The 남 reappears in 남편 (husband) and 남자친구 (boyfriend).
woman / female
그 여자는 제 친구예요.That woman is my friend.
💡 Memory tip: 여(女, female) + 자(子, person) = "female person." The mirror of 남자. The 여 reappears in 여자친구 (girlfriend).
child / kid
아이가 세 명 있어요.I have three children.
💡 Memory tip: Two soft vowels, "a-i" — the gentle word for a child. Contracts to 애 in casual speech.
Pronunciation: Also written as 애 in casual speech. 아이들 = children (plural)
husband
남편은 한국 사람이에요.My husband is Korean.
💡 Memory tip: Starts with 남 (male) — the same 男 as in 남자 (man). Your husband is your "male partner."
Pronunciation: ㅁ + ㅍ: [남편] — the ㅁ nasalizes before ㅍ
wife
아내와 같이 여행해요.I travel together with my wife.
💡 Memory tip: The counterpart of 남편 (husband). Native Korean word — distinct from the borrowed 와이프 (wife).
Pronunciation: More formal/neutral than 와이프 (waipeu, from English "wife") which is commonly used in casual speech
friend
친구를 만났어요.I met a friend.
💡 Memory tip: 친(親, close/intimate) + 구(舊, longtime) — a "close, longtime person." The 친 also appears in 친절 (kindness).
Pronunciation: In Korean, 친구 strictly means someone your OWN age. Older/younger friends use different terms.
to love
가족을 사랑해요.I love my family.
💡 Memory tip: 사랑 (love, the noun) + 하다 (to do) = "to do love." 사랑해요 is the phrase you hear in every K-drama.
Pronunciation: 하다 verb: 사랑하다 → 사랑해요 (polite present) → 사랑했어요 (past)
how many / what (number)
몇 살이에요?How old are you?
💡 Memory tip: The "how many" word that sits before counters: 몇 살 (how old), 몇 시 (what time), 몇 명 (how many people).
Pronunciation: ㅊ받침 → [ㄷ]: [멷]. Before a vowel: 몇이 → [며치]
years old (age counter)
스물다섯 살이에요.I'm 25 years old.
💡 Memory tip: The counter for years of age. Always pair it with native numbers: 한 살, 두 살, 스무 살.
Pronunciation: Uses native Korean numbers: 한 살 (1), 두 살 (2), 세 살 (3)... 스무 살 (20)
Korean family terms (호칭, hocching) are some of the most complex in any language. They change based on:
■ Speaker's Gender: • Older brother: 형 (if you're male) / 오빠 (if you're female) • Older sister: 누나 (if you're male) / 언니 (if you're female)
■ Age Hierarchy: Korea is one of the most age-conscious societies. The first question Koreans ask a new friend is often their age (나이) — not to be nosy, but to know which language level to use! Even a one-year difference matters.
■ Extended Family Terms Are Used Outside Family: • 아줌마/아주머니: "Auntie" — for middle-aged women (restaurant owners, vendors) • 아저씨: "Uncle" — for middle-aged men • 할머니/할아버지: "Grandma/Grandpa" — for elderly people • 오빠/언니/형/누나: Used for close older friends too!
■ Korean Age System: Traditionally, Koreans used a different age system where you're 1 at birth and everyone ages up on January 1st. Korea officially switched to international age (만 나이) in 2023, but the old system still appears in casual conversation.
Asking age politely: "몇 살이세요?" or "나이가 어떻게 되세요?"
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